Pumpkin Offense

Hmmm…pumpkin smashers found their aim by the time they reached us! What do you see in the picture?
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A. A mailbox
B. Vandalism
C. A source of anger and frustration
D. An opportunity
 
That’s right–it’s option D! (ok ok, yes, A and B too). But seriously–do I consider this pure joy (James 1:2)? How about really meaning the part of the disciples’ prayer which reads, “as we forgive those who sin against us”? Such a minor grievance when compared to our own violence against God…
 
Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgment. – Psalm 51:4
 
…whoever has been forgiven little loves little. This does not imply that (as I thought at one time) people who do “worse things” can love more. Rather, it is those who have realized the graveness of the crimes against God they’ve already committed, who have been forgiven, who have the opportunity and the obligation to forgive the smaller crimes against themselves! God, help my eyes stay fixed on your Son…
 
Matthew 18:21-35

Forgiving the Inexcusable

To be a Christian means to forgive the inexcusable, because God has forgiven the inexcusable in you. This is hard. It is perhaps not so hard to forgive a single great injury. But to forgive the incessant provocations of daily life – to keep on forgiving the bossy mother-in-law, the bullying husband, the nagging wife, the selfish daughter, the deceitful son – How can we do it? Only, I think, by remembering where we stand, by meaning our words when we say in our prayers each night “Forgive our trespasses as we forgive those that trespass against us.” We are offered forgiveness on no other terms. To refuse it is to refuse God’s mercy for ourselves. There is no hint of exceptions and God means what He says.

– excerpt from Essay on Forgiveness by C. S. Lewis

Resource Bank for Further Study:

The Forgiving Nature of our King:

  • Nehemiah 9:16-17
  • Psalm 86:5
  • Isaiah 43:22-25
  • Romans 5:6-8

Empowerment to Forgive Others:

  • Ephesians 4:32
  • Colossians 3:13
  • Mark 11:25

Obligation to Forgive Others:

  • Matthew 6:9-15
  • Mark 11:25-26

Confronting & Reacting to Sins in Others:

  • Galatians 6:1-5
  • Matthew 18:15-17
  • Matthew 7:1-5
  • I Corinthians 5:9-13
  • II Corinthians 2:6-8

Questions for Consideration:

  1. Where does unforgiveness find its root based on James 3:14-16?
  2. What kind of person is justified before God based on Luke 18:9-14?
  3. According to God’s Word, how is my brain to be trained in order to live by the Spirit?
  4. How may I be forgiven?
  5. Do I really believe? Am I forfeiting forgiveness? On what evidence do I base my claim?
  6. What are the expectations of me? (Romans 8:12-13)
  7. What is my motivation for forgiving?
  8. How does my vertical relationship (with God) affect my horizontal relationships (marriage, kids, co-workers, etc.)?
  9. What is the key to actually forgiving the next chance I get?
  10. What changes are you going to make to live by the Spirit now?

Believe – to trust, rely upon, live by (far surpasses mere acknowledgement)